It should be complicated. I suppose parts of it are, actually, but for the most part, it's been a lot like joining two sides of a zipper. The kids; us; all of the details of merging our lives together—it's been so natural. It feels good. The stuff that is difficult, where we have to work out details, or take time, it's all okay. It's worth it because we see how wonderful things are and will be as it all unfolds.