I found out about this documentary on Facebook, I think. What a gift of validation for young widows and widowers.
There's a difference between being widowed at 70 and being widowed at 40. There's a difference between losing your life partner whom you spent every day with, had children with, planned a future with, and shared an intimate relationship with and losing someone else in your life. I am not saying it is harder or easier, but it is different, and this documentary does a great job of exploring that difference.